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in an attempt to brighten my mood and restore my belief that i WILL indeed find the right man for me, its time for another upbeat post!!! this one is gona be fun. im going to show you guys what i think some perfect dates are (giggles). im such a girl sometimes, and am a romantic at heart (no matter how cynical i may be at times). i like all the mushy gushy feelings stuff, but only at the right time, with the right person. i can't stress how important timing is. the wrong timing can RUIN what could potentially be a great match up. i tend to keep a lot of things to myself. i don't like sharing my feelings n stuff because i wholeheartedly believe that's the quickest route to getting your feelings hurt. i hate the part of the game where feelings come up in the discussion. really, i do. ESPECIALLY when im not even sure how i feel about the person yet! well, more on that in another post. here are my great date ideas....

.a romantic nature get away.
you would probably never guess, but i love the outdoors. i like boating (canoeing and row boating actually), LOVE swimming, i can deal with fishing as long as i don't have to touch the fish, and i can even deal with sleeping outdoors (go figure). creepy serial killer vibe to to side, a secluded cabin on the water would be ideal. just me, the boo, and the stars. i love stars. like, could just sit and stare for an hour. and im not the best at just sitting still for an hour lol. i think its the idea of being able to do everything together and really get to know eachother, without anything permanent. playing house essentially. cooking together, wine by the fireplace, picnics, skinny dipping, laying on the the grass and talking. all the fun and corny stuff you can think of. no phones. no computers. just the company of each other. and maybe Binxi n ChuChi lol

.shopping spree.
no explanation necessary. i love spending money. im even better at it when its not mine :)

.all day date.
this can be a tough one. the chemistry DEFINITELY has to be there. you can't just spend the day with just anybody. on MY day date, i'd start w/ everyone's fave ihop :0)
next, i'd do the zoo or the museum. personally, i love the museum of natural history. the dinosaurs, mummies, natural artifacts. i love it. after a few hours at the zoo or museum i'd be ready for dinner. currently im hungry for some pasta, so i'd say an Italian restaurant would be awesome. but actual real Italian food. like, homemade. freshly prepared. not olive garden.
after dinner, perhaps a comedy show and drinks. there's nothing like a good laugh. a good laugh is always better when shared with someone you care about.
after the show, truthfully i'd want to do somethin like go to the top of the roc or a walk through a park. ive never been to the top of the roc. as long as i've lived in NY (all 25 of my years), there are SO many things i've never done and seen that are right at my disposal. after a view like that, and a long day together, it's def time for bed 8;0)

.a quiet night in.
if you haven't noticed a pattern, you're kinda dense. lol i love spending time with the guy i care about. i really DON'T bleed ice! i just act like it a lot lol well, for my quiet night in, a home cooked meal is in order. i don't really like cooking, but i do it pretty well for someone who rarely does it. after dinner, i'd go with a game. i whop some ass in trouble. lol cards, video games, doesn't matter. just something that gets the convo and the laughs goin. im pretty competitive, so be prepared for more smack talkin than usual. and also be prepared to give me a great pep talk if i lose lol. after the fun and games, MOVIE TIME!! i love movies. i'd sit through just about anything. i've got a pretty decent collection, netflix, and on demand so it shouldn't be hard to find something we'd both enjoy. i think its a good night when you can end it snuggled up in the arms of someone you enjoy spending time with. <3